Internet Edition Issue 7, September/October
2004
Editorial:
All you need to say is 'Yes' if you mean 'Yes'... (Matt. 5.37)
Viewpoint: Ladies like carrot cake!
Derby Farewells
Father Lorenz
Stephen 'Baamba'
Albert
From the Office of
Justice, Ecology & Peace
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KCP Magazine
Viewpoint:
Ladies like carrot cake!
By
Bishop Christopher Saunders
Some time ago a
friend took me to a local deli to buy some cakes for some ladies in an
office we were visiting. As we looked through the glass display my friend
set his beady eye on an inviting chocolate cake while I mused over an
attractive banana cake. "Who's it for?" demanded the imposing
shop assistant, obviously bored with our hesitation. "It's for some
ladies in an office" blurted out my friend in an obedient tone. In
a voice that defied contradiction the confident salesperson announced
"Ladies like carrot cake!" With that she scooped up a few pieces
and began to shovel them into a cardboard box. "I like chocolate
cake and maybe some ladies do too" said my friend with a note of
rising defiance in his voice. "Let's have some chocolate cake too,"
I said in a hasty attempt to retrieve the situation. With bludgeoning
determination she added chocolate cake to the package and put her hand
out for payment.
On the way to the office we decided to set out chocolate cake and carrot
cake on a plate, then sit back and see what choices the ladies made. Curiosity
dictated we find out if the deli worker was right. Do ladies like carrot
cake or are they less predictable than that?
The ladies arrived for morning tea at the appointed hour. The first one
took a piece of carrot cake. 'The deli doyen was right!' I thought. The
second lady took a piece of chocolate cake. My friend was elated. The
Deli dilettante was wrong! Or was she? Quite obviously ladies, according
to this limited sampling at least, do indeed like carrot cake but they
also like chocolate cake. Many following forays by the office group proved
no particular preference by ladies for carrot cake or chocolate cake.
They enjoyed them both until everything was gone.
The promotion of conflict between the sexes in recent decades has been
particularly damaging to social harmony in western society. Radical Feminists
alone haven't always been to blame for actions that have led to this parlous
state of affairs but they have ruthlessly constructed a philosophy that
has left scars on the nation's psyche and indeed on the faith and culture
of the Church. A warped sense of freedom and subjective rights has been
a catch-cry of too many feminist groups. The resultant diminishment has
led to the devaluation of the worth of women raising families and being
homemakers. Sadly, it has also contributed to the scourge of abortion,
which in Australia presently stands at around one hundred thousand per
annum.
Cardinal Ratzinger's Letter to the Bishops on the Collaboration of Men
and Women in the Church and in the World challenges feminists who promote
conflict between the sexes. Importantly it emphasizes that women should
be present in the world of work, in positions of responsibility and not
considered from the sole perspective of physical procreation. The Cardinal
has called for an active collaboration between the sexes based on the
differences between men and women and on their common humanity, having
been created in the image of God.
Recognising that women play a unique "role of maximum importance
in the Church's life" the Cardinal's text promotes the need for justice
for all women. Not just some.
The Cardinal's letter brought balance to the gender debate. Those who
study it will realise what sense and justice there is in what he has to
say. For the sake of seeking harmony and gleaning a mature appreciation
of the complexity of the gender issues, his document is vital reading.
(see Website: www.vatican_va.)
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